When Love Feels Harder Than It Should Be

Oladimeji Odunsi

When love feels harder than it should be, know that its definitely not love. Its not the right kind of love at least because even though the right various kinds of love is not easy, its also never excruciatingly hard.

It doesnt leave you up all night crying because you dont know where you stand or if youre being treated right or if youre the only one.

It doesnt construct you topic whats wrong with you or whats incorrect with the world.

It doesnt stimulate you want to give up on love and everything that has to do with it.

Love heals. It doesnt destroy.

Love constructs you want to live. It doesnt construct you want to jump off a cliff.

Love brings out the best in you, it doesnt attain you bitter, resentful, angry or vindictive.

Love shows you a whole new world, a world “youve never” thought youd live, it doesnt stimulate your world darker or harder or more painful. Love goes to show the

When love feelings harder than it should be, dont call it love, call it infatuation, call it lust, call it obsession but dont call it love because love doesn’t leave you violated, love builds you

Love attains your heart confidence and believes again.

Love makes you want to give everything youve got and then some.

When love feels harder than it was necessary to, you have to understand that you’re not in love with the right person or you haven’t met the right person yet.

When all you know is heartbreak, then you’ve never really received love or been in the right relationship. I know it’s sometimes hard to hear that because we want to call our romantic experiences love but sometimes they’re just merely romantic experiences; whether good or bad, they’re just lessons, they’re because love is not hard.

Love doesn’t just leave. Love doesn’t poison you. Love doesn’t attain you never wishes to love again .

Love gives you hope. Love gives you strength. Love attains you grow and love stimulates you smile when youre sad. It induces you run when youre tired. It stimulates you soothe when youve been addicted to the chaos. Love only hurts when its wrong. Love is merely hard when youre giving your heart to someone who is not ready or doesnt want to give you all of theirs.

Rania Naim is a poet and author of the new volume, available here.

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