It was “Camplympics” and Chris was a finalist in the pool-noodle javelin toss.
Chris is blind, the outcomes of eye cancer, but that wasn’t stopping him from participating in this fun event at Camp Ronald McDonald for Good Times .
His camp counselor, Bear, was standing behind the rings, snapping his fingers so that Chris could hear the distance and region where he was to toss the javelin.
“The whole dining hall was quiet, ” says Fatima Djelmane, developing director of the camp. “It was close to 200 people there, between the campers and the counselors, and “its just” altogether silent.”
Everyone was waiting with bated breath. Chris threw the javelin three times through the hoops.
The crowd roared. Chris had just won the bronze medal .
“It was a huge moment, where everyone was screaming and so excited and crying because they had witnessed something amazing, ” Djelmane says. “It simply shows the partnership between[ him] and his counselor and the subsistence that he received from the whole community.”
That’s what attains this camp so great. We might take “just being a kid” for awarded, but they don’t.
Located in Mountain Center, California, the camp opens its doors, free of cost, to any child who has or has had cancer in their lifetime . Campers can bring a sibling along too, and the camp also offers a Family Camp program for first-time campers so they can bring their whole households.
Because households and siblings come to the camp together, counselors often don’t know which children have cancer and which don’t.
Their illnesses are not the focus and that, says Jessica Henke, a volunteer camp counselor, is a great thing for both children with cancer and their entire families.
Kids are encouraged to explore who they are and what they love beyond medical limitations and the dreaded “c-word.”
Activities at the camp include everything any other summer camp might have: archery, horseback riding, rock climbing, swimming, arts and crafts, and more.
Nights are filled with campfires, dances, and special cabin activities planned by the counselors.
And, while the counselors may be made aware of some campers’ restrictions, campers are still encouraged to try every activity offered at Camp Ronald McDonald for Good Times.
“No matter anyone’s physical restrictions, the staff and the volunteers are trained so that they can help everyone participate in everything, ” Henke explains. “These kids are given a lot of opportunities at camp that they may not be given down the mountain.”
Getting lost in play and forgetting that they are sick, even if it’s just for a little while, means everything .
“There’s no’ oh, you’re the child with cancer.’ It’s not part of their identity anymore, and then they’re able to discover who they are outside of that label of cancer, ” Djelmane says.
Life can also be tough for siblings, who sometimes don’t get as much attention. Fortunately, they are also encouraged to join in on the fun.
“Cancer lives in the body of one child, but it affects the entire family, ” Djelmane says.
Illness changes household dynamics, creates new responsibilities, and forces kids to grow up route too quickly. Cancer treatment is also a long process. It often takes years — years where the parents are not able to be fully present for the sibling who isn’t diagnosed with cancer .
As a outcome, siblings of children with cancer often experience fear, anxiety, fury, resentment, guilt, and heartbreak. And both the patient and the sibling may miss out on normal childhood experiences, like sports and socializing with other children.
Getting siblings and family members out of the house and letting them know that it’s OK to step out of the role of caretaker can go a long way.
“This is camp. You can be yourself. We will accept you for any way you are. If you want to be loud, be loud! Be crazy! ” Henke told one of her campers.
Counselors are trained to treat all children the same — and this can make a big difference .
“It genuinely boosts their self-esteem, their sense of self-identity, and their sense of freedom , especially for the patient, who is often coddled because the mothers are trying to do everything for them, ” Djelmane said.
“When they’re at camp, they’re truly pushed to develop leadership skills and to take on a lot of responsibility not only for themselves, but for the entire group.”
“A lot of people that I satisfy, when I tell them about my job, they say, ‘Oh, it must be so sad, ‘” says Djelmane .
“But actually, it’s one of the most inspiring and beautiful places I’ve ever been to. There’s a culture of passion and love that’s actually palpable at camp.”
“We have volunteers who have been coming for 35 years, ” she continues. “It’s actually an amazing community. The counselors are so connected to each other and to the campers.”
One of those repeat volunteers is Scott Cohen, federal employees of Northwestern Mutual and active supporter of the company’s Childhood Cancer Program that has contributed over $15 million to the cause. He’s employed his vacation time to volunteer at the camp for the last 11 years.
“I come back more refreshed from camp than if I were to go on a real vacation, ” he says. “There’s something about being with these kids. I just feel so good about the time we expend together.”
And volunteers often recruit others to the camp because they find the experience so rewarding. Henke, for example, first learned about the camp when her boyfriend told her what an amazing period he had as a camp counselor, so she decided to become a counselor herself.
“I learned to be intentional and to be present in the moment, ” Henke says of her experience. “You is able to super close with people in the instances of a few days or hours. I made some really good friends there.”
It just goes to show that dedicating back to the community can do just as much good for the giver as it does for the receiver.
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