I asked Lucy McBath to tell me about her son, Jordan Davis. She welcomed the opportunity.
“Thank you for asking, ” she says. “Some people say ‘Oh, I’m afraid to ask, ‘ I’m like ‘No, ask me about him.’ It helps keep him alive for me.”
Jordan was a really, good kid — thoughtful and kind. Created mostly by McBath in Atlanta, he made friends easily, and invited them over to his house for home-cooked meals and sleepovers.
“He was the various kinds of kid that would bring people together. He was truly, really good at that, ” she says. “He was really good at being the center of attention, like the light.”
Jordan was curious and inquisitive. He enjoyed learning about history, social sciences, and other cultures. As small children, he once spent a year feign he could speak Japanese.
That’s the son McBath remembers.
“He had all kinds of friends. I was very proud of that, that he had that various kinds of ability to love people. Simply love people for who they were.”
Jordan Davis was shot and killed on Friday, Nov. 23, 2012, in Jacksonville, Florida.
It was the day after Thanksgiving. Jordan, 17, was in an SUV with three friends, picking up snacks and cigarettes from a gas station convenience store. Michael David Dunn and his girlfriend were in township for a wedding and pulled into the next parking space. Dunn told the boys to turn down their music. After a hollering match with Jordan, Dunn alleged that Jordan opened the door of the SUV and pointed a shotgun in his direction. Dunn took a handgun out of his glove box and started shooting into the SUV.
Tommie, the driver and Jordan’s friend, floored the SUV backward, fleeing the gunfire. Dunn opened his doorway one more time to get a few more shots off. He afterwards told police he feared for their own lives, though police never find a shotgun in or around the SUV, and witnesses never saw one.
In the aftermath, Dunn sped away to his hotel. The boy pulled into a nearby shopping center to assess the damage. Three of them were physically unscathed but covered in blood. Jordan was hit three times. He gasped for air and succumbed soon after. Dunn and his girlfriend didn’t call the police. In fact, they made drinks and ordered a pizza.
McBath was in Chicago with their own families for Thanksgiving while Jordan had bided with his father in Jacksonville. The night of the shooting, McBath felt compelled to slip away from the table and go to the bedroom.
“I had no reason to go to the bedroom, ” she says. “When I get up there, I find Jordan’s father’s face on the phone as the phone was illuminating up, and that was the first phone call that I got.”
At that moment, a cruel, indelible line etched itself on their own lives — before Jordan and after.
During his trial, Dunn cited the language of Florida’s “Stand Your Ground” law.
Florida and 23 other nations allow individuals to use deadly force to defend or protect themselves against real or perceived threats. Stand Your Ground statutes attained the headlines in 2012 when another Florida man, George Zimmerman, “stood his ground” against Trayvon Martin, a 17 -year old kid holding an iced tea and Skittles. Zimmerman shot and killed Trayvon and, after a well-publicized trial, walked away a free man.
Dunn, however, was convicted of attempted murder for shooting at the other boys in the car. After a mistrial and retrial, nearly two years after the shooting, Dunn was convicted of the murder of Jordan Davis. He will expend the rest of his life behind bars.
“We are very grateful that justice has been served, justice not only for Jordan, but justice for Trayvon( Martin) and justice for all the nameless, faceless children and people that will never have a voice, ” McBath told the press after Dunn’s retrial.
Since Jordan’s murder, McBath has worked tirelessly for gun violence prevention.
Just months after the shooting, McBath was asked to speak about “Stand Your Ground” legislation in Georgia. One opportunity led to another, and before long, she was approached by the handgun violence prevention advocacy group, Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense in America to become their volunteer national spokesman.
Moms Demand Action was formed by a stay-at-home mom three days after the massacre at Sandy Hook Elementary School. The group now has more than 6,000 volunteers in all 50 states and 4 million advocates working to advance real policy change at the municipal, state, and national levels.
“We are the largest nonpartisan firearm violence prevention organisation in the country, ” McBath says. “We have helped pass background checks on all gun sales in seven countries. We have passed laws in 24 states to prevent domestic abusers from getting guns.”
McBath is now on faculty for Moms Demand Action, working to engage people of color, faith communities, and other traditionally underrepresented groups in the gun violence prevention dialogue. The fighting is hard, but each victory feels good and maintains her close to her son.
But as many victories McBath has had as a gun violence prevention advocate, there’s still one outstanding: speaking immediately to NRA leadership.
While the opportunity to speak with the lobby’s executives hasn’t presented itself, McBath knows just what she’ll say. It’s clearly written on her heart and pour out of her effortlessly, filled with fire and vigor.( Emphasis added .)
” I would say to them, they have placed earning over public safety . That they have had their hands in the back pockets of our legislators, and that we are no longer going to allow them to do that . … We understand what they’re doing and we will continue to fight them tooth and nail. They might be a Goliath, but we are the David and we are still challenge them every moment we get . … We will empower citizens as to the truth of what they’re doing. And we will continue to protect our families and our communities against their radical agenda of guns everywhere, every place , no questions asked. We are not afraid of them. And we will continue to build our army in opposition to their extremist agenda. And they can count on that.”
Her terms ring out like a rallying cry. It doesn’t matter who you are or what you do, gun violence is infecting our communities. And it must stop.
Lucy McBath can’t bringing her son back. But sharing his story and fighting for common sense reforms could save someone else’s.
And through her advocacy run, Jordan’s legacy lives on in safer schools, communities, and public spaces. His is a light that will never go out.
“He was a really good, kid.”
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