Because Of My Anxiety, I Always Feel Uncomfortable

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I never feel relaxed. I never feel safe. I am always on the edge of my seat, worrying about what will happen next. I am always waiting for whatever ounce of happiness that I have to be yanked away from me. For the charade of calmness to come to an end.

I am scared to send the first text because if the person takes too long to answer me, I will feel like our entire relationship is a lie, like no one wants me around. I am scared to speak to strangers in shops and street corners because I am worried about being judged, I am worried that they will see precisely who I am and realize it isn’t anyone good.

I am scared to raise my hand in class. Scared to send emails to my boss. Frightened to dance at parties. Scared to leave my house to socialize. Scared to exist.

And I am scared of bigger things. I am scared of death. I am scared of walking through darkened city streets and riding packed metro cars and merging onto busy highways because of the horror splattered across news tickers. Because I am worried about becoming another statistic.

I am even frightened when I am inside of my own home, when I am around the people who are supposed to make me feel at ease, like there is nothing to worry about. I can’t trust anyone. I can only trust myself.

But at the same period, I can’t trust myself. I can’t trust my memories because I will replay a conversation in my mind again and again until I realize that the other person looked at me incorrect, that they spoke sarcastically, that they seemed annoyed.

When that doubt creeps inside, I don’t know whether I am being a realist or being ridiculous. Whether I am overreacting or finally seeing things the route the latter are meant to be seen.

Fear follows me everywhere and my insecurities tag alone, too.

I am always uncomfortable , no matter the situation. During long stillness, I freak out, hoping the other person isn’t bored of me. And when they are speaking, instead of fully paying attention to their terms, I pay attention to whether I’m making too much eye contact with them or not enough. Either that or I fumble through my brain, trying to come up with the response I am going to give them once they stop talking.

I am only half listening. I am only half there. I am only half exists in any given time.

I am always uncomfortable, even when I am alone, because that is when I have the most time to think. And thinking is the worst thing for me. My brain is my worst enemy. It persuades me that I am unattractive. Unlovable. Unbearable. It builds me am wondering whether I deserve all of the very best things in my life — and convinces me I deserve all the bad things.

I am always uncomfortable. It has always been that way and I am worried that is never going to change.

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