This Is Why You Push Love Away, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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Aries( March 21 st to April 19 th)

You push love away because you’re too impatient to play the game .

You want to know what’s going on between you and someone else. You detest that awkward limbo between “talking” and “dating.” You don’t find exhilaration in the” What if ?” of it all. You find it utterly anxiety-inducing. In turning, you either walk away before love can have a chance or you come on too strong and scare the person away. Try and learn to trust the process, Aries. Love takes time.

Gemini( May 22 nd to June 21 st)

You push love away because you’re always looking for the next best thing .

Without fail, as soon as you start to get serious with person, you back away and break things off. You struggle to commit because you’re completely convinced that there’s someone else out there, someone. You’re constantly bouncing between significant other because you’re afraid to be tied down. Learn to enjoy the convenience of resolving for a while, Gemini. You might find you actually like it.

Cancer( June 22 nd to July 22 nd)

You push love away because you’re too insecure to let anyone in .

Cancer, you are so focused on your own flaws and shortcomings that you are completely convinced that they construct you totally unlovable. To you, you’re only going to be worth loving when you are absolutely perfect. Whether that’s losing weight, get the job of your dreams, building more money, having a great group of friends, and a life that seems perfect on Instagram. However, to be clear, Cancer, if the person or persons you’re interested is only dating you based on those things, that’s not someone you want to be with anyway. Because the truth is, you’re not perfect, Cancer. And you never is likely to be. And you know what? Neither is anyone else. We’re all doing our best, including yourself. And that’s all you can ask for. Let love in, Cancer. You’ll be surprised that you are lovable just as you are.

Leo( July 23 rd to August 22 nd)

You push love away because you’re of determining .

As a Leo, you know your worth. You don’t want to end up with someone who doesn’t deserve you, who you feel like you could do better than. As such, you’re picky when it comes to dating. Almost too picky, because you find yourself perpetually single because of those standards. There’s nothing incorrect with having criteria, Leo. However, keep in mind that you’re never going to find someone who is perfect or a perfect match. You’re only going to find other flawed human beings who are going to do their best to love you. Try and accept and appreciate less than perfection. You’ll find it easier to find love that way.

Virgo( August 23 rd to September 22 nd)

You push love away because you always find something wrong pretty much immediately .

And that’s because you look for it. And it’s not big things that go against your morals or values or anything like that. No, you look for the interesting thing, micro-habits that you choose are perfectly terrible and are unable to tolerate them. But here’s the thing, Virgo: people are fucking riling. All people. E-v-e-r-y-o-n-e. You’re going to have to learn to deal with stupid little oddities if you want to find love. Because you’re going to miss out on the big, wonderful things if you stay too focused on the tiny aggravations. Trust me.

Libra( September 23 rd to October 22 nd)

You push love away because you’re scared of getting hurt .

You’ve been hurt before, Libra; you’ve been hurt. Because of this, you’ve instilled some fairly drastic measures to ensure you’ll never feel that way again. You never put yourself out there. You always say no to dates and blow off anyone who tries to get closer. And it’s not because you’re not interested. It’s because you’re frightened of get heartbroken and let down again. Sorry to say it, Libra, but that’s all part of determining your person. You need to strengthen your ability to be resilient. It’s the only style you’ll find love.

Scorpio( October 23 rd to November 22 nd)

You push love away because you have extreme trust issues .

You never let your walls down or let anyone to get too close. You trust pretty much no one, when it comes to matters of your own heart. You tread carefully in all matters of romance. Dates are kept short and sweet. You are a serial ghoster, and not because you don’t want to date the person. You just figure they’re going to leave and you want to beat them to the punch. However, you need to lighten up, Scorpio. Love won’t hurt you. The journey there might, but it won’t kill you. It’ll only make you stronger.

Sagittarius( November 23 rd to December 21 st)

You push love away because you construct people up too much in your mind .

You tend to get a little idealistic, Sagittarius. You romanticize someone to the point where you almost take away their humanity. When you eventually start dating someone severely and realize that they are only human made up of quirks and mistakes, you lose interest pretty quickly and are constantly disappointed because people never live up to the version of them you’ve created in your intellect. But, then again, how could they? You need to allow people room to be themselves, without your ideas of them. Stop being so hard on the people you date and try and learn to appreciate them just as they are.

Capricorn( December 22 nd to January 20 th)

You push love away because you never put yourself out there .

Like, You always make up excuses. You’re either too busy with run or you really want to focus on yourself. While these are totally fair reasons, it gets to the point where it’s excessive. Work is always going to be super busy; learn to make room for love in your schedule. You can still be independent while dating someone else, believe it or not. Learn to be a little less rigid in the way you structure your life and invite more flexibility. The office won’t burn down and you won’t lose sight of yourself or your goals. You might even be able to see them clearer.

Aquarius( January 21 st to February 18 th)

You push love away because you never let anyone know how you fucking feeling.

As an Aquarius, you despise any sort of emotional expres. You detest it. It’s vulnerable and scary and it attains you feel like you’re swimming in an ocean where you can’t see the bottom. When you start to fall for someone, then, you fucking flee. You push them away and sabotage any chance of it working out because it merely feels so goddamn uncomfortable. The thing is, though, that love is always going to feel vulnerable. It’s always going to feel scary and uncertain. But it’s worth it. Because what if it does work out?

Pisces( February 19 th to March 20 th)

You push love away because you have incredibly unrealistic expectations .

Love is merely supposed to butterflies and bliss, right Pisces? Not quite. While it definitely is those things, it’s also hard work and a whole bunch of compromise. And whenever the waters ever get rough, you tend to abandon ship. “,” you say to yourself in justification of your actions. And while constant fighting is a sign that it’s a bad fit, disagreements and a little difficulty every now and then don’t necessarily constitute a broken relationship. Let discrepancies happen, Pisces. Learn to work through them. Find person worth fighting for and then battle like hell for them. You’ll be thankful you did.

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