Introspection is a healthy practice of mindfulness and connection without reflection reproductions chaos. 2017 taught me that fuck boy is an energy that transcends kind. They come in all shapes and sizes, an assortment of religious spaces, an smorgasbord of spiritual spaces, all colorings, all ages and always toxic. Male privilege predominates the dating scene, pinning girls against other women in the hopes of being’ selected ‘. Misogyny is internalized and ego traps are constructed. Women/ Femme’s are left opposing to stay strong and mend, but you cannot get well in the environment that constructed you sick. You have to shake shit up, do something different, do something revolutionary like abundantly fill their own lives with love that is willing. Love that is open, honest, consistent, transparent, light , nourish and warm.
Building stable connects is a habit that many millennials are absence. The notion that connections could be stable and flourishing is one I am constantly theorizing about with my comrades, but even in my own life executing said stability is upstream. I choose to honor my connects in this way because I hold myself accountable for walking my talk. It’s one thing to say that you love yourself and another thing to have every decision you stimulate show that you love yourself. Demonstrate yourself that you love yourself because it’s all for you.
2017 tested my self-respect and set hot water under my bounds. One recurring lesson presented to me was that people will treat you how you allow them to treat you. Slighting my best judgement I connected with someone who wasted my time, someone who has a sly style with terms, someone who hasn’t even conceptualized their fucking boy status. I had to boss up because that kind of behavior just will not do. Crying brings life to an aching Soul. I don’t break, I bend like the matrix.
Things to consider when moving forward with any connect 😛 TAGEND
* Do I feel safe?
* Do I feel heard?
* Do I feel nourished ?
* What do I require/ want from this connection ?
* How does my energy converge with this space?
* Do I feel comfy enough to maintain an intimate connection with this person?
By consciously taking in each breath of every moment, I am creating a future for myself beyond my imagination. The selections I make everyday decide my fate. That cycle of fuck son energies has been cancelled. Always recollect who you are and your worth. When person shows you their true colors don’t try and paint it over with the tints and hues you’d prefer. Allow people to be perfectly imperfect, but that doesn’t mean compromise your own well being. Create that close for yourself and keep it pushing. It’s up to you to feel how you feel about them after everything isn’t said, but done. However, don’t harbor any malice. Appreciate what has come and left, what you grew into and what you’ve outgrown.
Anybody who leaves you wondering is chopped. Anybody who makes “youre feeling” unsure is chopped. Anybody who tells you upfront that they aren’t shit is chopped. Anybody who taxes your time and energy is chopped. Anyone who your intuition recommends you to avoid on an intimate level is chopped. Anybody who does not respect you or your time is chopped. Stand clear of fuck boys cloaked in spirituality.
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