My life in sex: the man who always gives an orgasm

Getting a woman to climax: its not rocket science

I‘ve never asked,” How was that for you ?” because, candidly, I haven’t needed to. I’m 49 and have been good at dedicating women orgasms since I started having sexuality; it’s something I can do on demand, either orally( never fails) or, to a slightly lesser extent, with penetration.

I learned from reading pornographic magazines with a high lesbian sexuality content when I was a teenager. It’s all about getting very familiar with my partner’s anatomy and reading how she’s reacting to my touch. It’s not rocket science.

How do I know my partners have never faked an orgasm? I don’t suppose I do with 100% certainty- but they’ve all displayed a few seconds of what I can only describe as total paralysis. There’s also an extreme sensitivity of the clitoris and sometimes nipples immediately afterwards. My current partner starts helplessly chuckling to herself. I haven’t experienced that before, but at least she’s consistent.

I read a lot about men who are lousy devotees, often because they are only very interested in their own gratification; is it so prevalent? If so, I feel sorry for them, and for their partners. Inducing a woman squirm with an orgasm or two gives me such a high( not to mention an ego boost ).

I don’t know if girls generally have detailed dialogues about their sexuality lives, but I do know that previous girlfriends have told their friends about my performance. Once, during a relationship attorney conference, the therapist asked my now ex-wife whether bad sexuality was ever an issue. Even in her total hatred, she gave me an A+ rating.

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