Singer Ariana Grande and “Saturday Night Live” cast member Pete Davidson were reportedly dating.
Neither star as of May 2018 had confirmed the relationship outright, but their reps haven’t pushed back on reports claiming the two have linked up. The vocalist and comedian’s playful interactions on Instagram have certainly suggested to fans a romance is budding.
While many celebrated the news, it inevitably came with a side of backlash too. Some of the criticism, however, traversed an unfortunate line.
Trolls began pointing to Davidson’s history of mental illness to suggest he couldn’t be in a healthy relationship.
The comedian felt it necessary to closed that down. Fast.
“Normally, I wouldn’t comment on something like this cause like, fuck you, ” Davidson wrote in a note he shared to his Instagram story. “But[ I’ve] been hearing a lot of ‘people with BPD[ Borderline Personality Disorder] can’t be in relationships’ talk. I simply wanna let you know that’s not true.”
Last year, Davidson said he was diagnosed with BPD in 2016 after having lived through a “nightmare” year that involved rehab and grappling with the ups and downs of diagnosis. The comedian has furthermore spoken openly about living with depression.
“Just because someone has a mental illness does not mean they can’t be happy and in a relationship, ” Davidson wrote. “It also doesn’t mean that person makes the relationship toxic.”
After noting there are many life-changing treatments available for people like him, Davidson emphasized the importance of combating stigmas links with mental illness.
“I just think it’s fucked up to stigmatize people as crazy and say that they are unable to do stuff that anyone can do, ” he wrote. “It’s not their faulting and it’s the wrong way for people to look at things.”
Davidson has been praised by mental health proponents for using his celebrity to humanize his illnesses — and poking fun at himself along the way.
In one “SNL” segment that aired shortly after he went populace with his diagnosis, the comedian speak candidly about his mental illness with “Weekend Update” host Colin Jost.
“If you’re in the casting of a late-night comedy reveal, it might help if they, you know, do more of your comedy sketches, ” Davidson joked about styles others can help him get through his dark days. “I was born depressed, but it might make me feel better if I was on Tv more.”
Like many comedians, Davidson often use brash and cringeworthy lines as a kind of therapy to overcome trauma. His father succumbed on 9/11, for example, and the comedian’s folded the devastating loss into his routine with a comedic spin.
Laughter may not be the best medicine, but it surely going to be able to.
Davidson ended his message on Instagram clarifying why he decided to speak up in the first place.
“I’m simply writing this because I want everyone out there who has an illness to know that it’s absolutely no truth to the rumors[ that you can’t be mentally ill and be in a relationship] and that anyone who says that is ill and full of shit, ” he wrote. “Mental illness is not a joke; it’s a real thing.”
“For all those struggling I want you to know that I love you and I understand you and it is going to be OK, ” Davidson concluded. “That’s all. Love to everyone else.”
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